I never stepped foot in an active combat zone
Besides Vietnam, I've been to Korea for 2 'Team Spirits', and though it may not be a hot war, it's still a cold war, and your ass was on the firing line, so don't denigrate your service just because they didn't throw lead your way. And I would remind you, there are few places on this rock where your ass was as close to being fired at as in that country with their looney toon neighbors. You were as you said...Lucky, and I'd rather be Lucky than good.