At the set up my troops were massed on my side of the map. I ASSumed the enemy would be on the other side so i set up accordingly. Lo and behold the enemy comes in behind me..
Yes that's a pain in random QB's; one way round it is to play Attack missions (as attacker or defender) rather than Meetings, which will greatly increase the chances of the AI force starting at the other end of the map. (Key ALT-J highlights the objective area so you can base your strategy around that)
There is a nicely colored area in front of my darkly shaded area so I place each unit in this nicely colored area. Hit go, and to my amazement, they all start walking and driving to these spots. I thought they would jump there to start the game..
The 'nicely colored area' was the objective area, not the setup area. Toggle it off with ALT-J and that'll leave you with the coloured setup area.
Place units by selecting the unit then selecting 'Move' and clicking on a spot in the setup area and it'll jump there. If it doesn't jump there it means you've clicked outside the setup area, so try again.
Once I get the manual in my hand it will be easier. Alt-tab gets old quickly. It takes 3 minutes to load a turn..
I printed out the Tutorial (pages 17-43), don't you have a printer?
But believe me, the game is so simple to play that we don't really need to have the Tut in front of us anyway, just read through it in PDF and jot down on a piece of paper the main points.
I'm a simplicity freak, so believe me I'd drop CMBN in an instant if it was too complex.
Hell I won the '1 Training-Roadblock' mission at only my 2nd attempt, and the Hill Assault trainer at the first attempt, it's so easy, the trick is to present the enemy with the WHOLE of your force at once rather than feed them to him in useless dribs and drabs, just as Guderian said- "Punch with your fist and not with spread fingers", it's as true now as it ever was.
As regards 3 minutes to load a turn, maybe you're playing big missions? The Roadblock mission turns load in about 10 seconds for me.
If you're playing random QB's, select 'Tiny' force and 'Tiny'map size to start with and jump straight in, that's how I learnt..